Can video games improve social skills and relationships?

Video games are often perceived as a solitary activity, but this stereotype is far from accurate. Information from a 2015 study conducted by the Pew Research Center indicated that 83% of teenagers play video games with others – 83% in person, and 75% online. Further, the study reported that 52% of teens who play with peers online also play with individuals who are not their friends outside of game play.

New gaming platforms, particularly those that are Internet- and mobile-based such as Fortnite or Minecraft, have increased opportunities for teens to create meaningful connections with peers through gaming. Many games are intended to be played with friends and are designed for kids who may experience some degree of social anxiety, affording the opportunity to interact more freely with others. For instance, children who experience anxiety when not knowing what to talk about with fellow peers can easily discuss video games with others who play the same game.

Studies have indicated that social interactions involved in video games can be beneficial for players. Griffiths et al. (1997) noted that MMORPG’s (Massive Multiplayer Online Role Playing Games) have provided many gamers the opportunity to develop lifelong friendships and partners.   Other research in this area describes how gaming can lead to the development of leadership skills and to a sense of kinship and teamwork.

To learn more about this important topic, check out these straightforward and scholarly articles that reflect the current state of the science. You can also link to our complete bibliography on the science of games and learning or go to the Center for Media and Child Health Research base for more extensive information.

Adachi, P. J., & Willoughby, T. (2012). Do video games promote positive youth development? Journal of Adolescent Research, 28(2), 155-165.

In this literature review, the authors examine positive and negative impacts of video-game play. A body of research has shown that video games can have positive impacts on social behavior in regard to cooperation, flow, and reduced in-group bias. The authors set the precedent for additional research to be completed on the positives of play.

Adachi. P. J. C., Wiloughby. T. (2013). More than just fun and games: The longitudinal relationships between strategic video games, self-reported problem solving skills, and academic grades. Journal of Youth and Adolescence, 42(7), 1041-1052.

This study examines students’ self-reported problem-solving skills throughout their four high school years and their correlation with strategic video-game play. Students who spent more time playing strategic video games had higher self-reported problem-solving skills but performed better academically in school.

David, O. A., Predatu, R. M., & Cardos, R. A. (2018). A pilot study of the REThink online video game applied for coaching emotional understanding in children and adolescents in the therapeutic video game environment: The feeling better resources game. Journal of Evidence-Based Psychotherapies, 18(1), 57-67.

The authors conducted a pilot study that examined the utility of the Feeling Better mini video game in improving emotional understanding in a sample of 22 children and adolescents aged 10-16. Results indicated that participating in the game significantly increased their ability to  identify and collect functional emotions after repeated trials of the game.

Ferguson, C. J., Olsen, C. K. (2013) Friends, fun, frustration, and fantasy: Child motivations for video game play. Motivation and Emotion, 37(1), 154-164.

This study focuses on motivations for children to play video games, in particular children who have symptoms of psychosocial problems such as Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder and depressive symptoms, and includes information on social play, stress levels, and violent video games.

Granic, I., Lobel, A., & Engels, R. (2014). The benefits of playing video games. American Psychologist, 69(1), 66-78.

The authors provide a detailed history of video-game play in this literature review and includes summaries on the social, cognitive, motivational, and emotional benefits of video games. The review concludes with information on the gamification of health care and education and suggestions for future research in this area.  

Lenhart, A., Kahne, J., Middaugh, E., MacGill, A. R., Evans, C., Vitak, J. (2008). Teens, video games, and civics. Pew Internet & American Life Project, 1-76.

This article explores the relationship between games and civic engagement through a national survey that uncovered which teens are playing what games, the social context of play, and parental role within play. It uncovered the relationship between specific video-game play and its  correlation to civic activities and commitments.

Lenhart, A. (2015). Video games are key elements in friendships for many boys. Teens, technology, and friendship. Received from


In this chapter, the author summarizes data from the Pew Research Center on the use of video games in male youth friendships. Detailed information is provided on gamer demographics, methods of communication through video games, and the utility of video games for building social networks.

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