Thinking Skills: Self-Awareness
What is Self-Awareness?
Self-Awareness is the thinking skill that focuses on a child’s ability to accurately judge their own performance and behavior and to respond appropriately to different social situations.
Self-Awareness helps an individual to tune into their feelings, as well as to the behaviors and feelings of others. For example, a child successfully uses self-awareness skills when they notice they are talking too loudly in a library where other children are trying to work, and then adjusts the volume or their voice to a more considerate level.
Video games allow kids to practice their Self-Awareness skills while in the midst of a fun and immersive gaming experience. Many games require that players “think about their thinking” in the game in order to overcome challenges, and multi-player games require interpersonal cooperation and understanding of one’s teammates’ intentions.
Watch the video to learn more about how video games can help your child improve their Self-Awareness thinking skill.
How does Self-Awareness work?
Self-Awareness is vital both to a child’s academic success as well as their social and emotional growth. This thinking skill facilitates a child’s ability to accurately judge their own performance and behavior, as well as their ability to appropriately respond to different social situations.
Kids with good Self-Awareness skills:
- Recognize the needs of younger children, such as holding their hands while crossing a street.
- Are willing to evaluate themselves.
- Have an awareness of how their behavior impacts others.
- Display an ability to understand and articulate their feelings.
- Use self-instruction, such as, “First, I’ll do this; next, I’ll do that.”
- Are able to identify what they must learn in order to complete a task successfully.
- Understand their personal strengths and weaknesses.
Kids with underdeveloped Self-Awareness skills:
- Have difficulty understanding nonverbal cues and body posture.
- Are unable to understand other people’s perspectives.
- Are in frequent conflict with others due to misunderstandings.
- Engage in inappropriate behaviors without recognizing how they impact others.
- Have difficulty being accurate in their self-assessment, such as in describing their academic or athletic performance.
- Are unlikely to double check their work and often make simple mistakes, such as adding instead of subtracting.
These are some general strategies and ideas for helping kids to improve their Self-Awareness skills.
- Use checklists: Before your child begins a chore or task, develop a checklist together that will determine how effectively the task has been completed.
- Make predictions: Teach your child to think about the different factors and obstacles that might affect the successful completion of tasks, such as an upcoming science project, a soccer game, or a musical performance. Keep track of your child’s predictions in a journal and after the activity has been completed, discuss your child’s predictions to identify possible reasons for any inaccuracies.
- Express yourself: Model self-verbalization skills by expressing your thoughts and problem-solving strategies aloud. For example, verbalize statements such as, “This reminds me of the time when we tried to do this,” or “I need to think about what worked and didn’t work the last time we did this.” Encourage your child to use similar self-instructional strategies to help them in their own problem-solving tasks.
- Help your child set up a play date with a friend. Prior to the friend’s arrival, try to anticipate some of the friend’s needs and interests. Have your child prepare some activities that they expect their friend will enjoy. Additionally, with a similar theme in mind, have your child help you prepare for other house guests, such as grandparents, cousins, or family friends.
Self-Awareness and Academic Skills
There is convincing research demonstrating how early training in thinking, executive, and learning skills improves long-term academic performance. The choice to teach thinking skills rather than academics to kindergarteners results in improved performance in mathematics and reading for middle school students and beyond. In other words, for children to grow up to become accomplished readers and mathematicians, more time should be spent teaching thinking skills to kindergarteners and first graders.
Self-awareness is an important skill in the capacity to assess one’s academic performance. Carefully checking over one’s work in math, taking the time to see that you have spelled words correctly while writing, and stepping back to make connections and inferences about what one has read are all important skills, particularly at higher levels of learning. Metacognition facilitates reflecting about what one has learned, and not simply memorizing a series of facts.
- Self-Awareness skills are an important part of making inferences and connections about content while reading.
- Self-Awareness helps children monitor and assess their comprehension of what they have read.
- Self-Awareness is an important aspect of understanding one’s audience and the type of writing assignment at hand.
- Self-Awareness helps kids develop a willingness to reflect on, and edit their work.
- Self-Awareness helps kids become proficient at spell checking techniques, proof-reading, and other revision activities.
- Self-Awareness helps kids to explain their mathematical reasoning in words.
- Self-Awareness is vital when self-evaluating and checking one’s work for errors.
Self-Awareness and Digital Play
Playing video games, searching the Internet, trying out the newest app, or Facebooking a friend demands a variety of thinking skills. Proficiency with any of these digital tools requires the ability to apply skills such as Planning, Organization, Working Memory, or Self-Awareness. For children, the attraction of video games and technologies makes them an ideal teaching tool for practicing game-based skills and learning to apply them to school and daily activities.
Self-Awareness is a frequently applied thinking skill for video game players who are looking to improve their performance or simply share their game passions with other players. Players will often ask each other questions, explain their approaches to difficult parts of the game, and reflect on new ways they can use their digital technologies to help them in real-world activities.
Digital play can help kids improve Self-Awareness skills by helping them to:
- Plan and discuss game strategies with parents or friends in a Massively Multiplayer Online Role-Playing Game (MMORPG).
- Talk to their peers who have an interest in the same video game or technology.
- Self-evaluate their performance in order to assess what they need to do in order to be successful and beat the game.
- Learn from one’s failure in the game, as well as one’s success.
- Develop estimation skills that help them hypothesize how certain strategies may “play out”.
Self-Awareness and Executive Functions
The thinking skill of self-awareness is associated primarily with Dawson and Guare’s executive skill of metacognition. In the LearningWorks for Kids thinking-skills model, we have added the component of social thinking, which reflects an individual’s capacity for understanding others’ feelings and motivations. This is consistent with newer theories of executive functioning, particularly those by Russell Barkley, in which the social component of executive skills is highly valued.
As an executive function, self-awareness refers to the capacity to understand the impact of one’s behavior on others, as well as the capacity to connect and empathize with individuals in their environments. Self-awareness helps children to be reflective and think about their actions and behavior, as well as to step back and consider what others in their environment are experiencing. Self-awareness facilitates the capacity to learn from one’s mistakes, accept criticism, and listen to and understand the feelings of others.
Assessing the executive function of self-awareness in children involves seeing how effectively they understand themselves and others. The Learning-Works for Kids Thinking Skills Assessment is based on the Executive Skills Questionnaire, which measures self-awareness primarily by children’s capacity to explain the rationale for their decision making, accurately assess their performance, and their capacity to take on other people’s perspectives.
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In today’s digital world, children have an ever-increasing amount of ways to interact with others and connect to the world around them. It is important, then, for parents to work to help their kids understand how such media can affect one’s self-image, and introduce tools to help kids better manage their Self-Awareness skills.
Self-Awareness is a skill that is critical to develop as your child progresses through school. It will help him make good decisions, find the right friends, and function well in social environments. But it all starts with you and your child’s relationship. So work together and use some of following strategies to help your child develop strong self-awareness skills.Continue reading